There is a saying that we have all either heard or perhaps even used at one time or another. It is the saying, "I can forgive you for what you did, but I will never forget." Such a statement is misleading because it genuinely says there is no hope of restoring a broken relationship. It means the offended person continues to harbor ill-feelings and that the offender will always have the offense hanging overhead. That is the way of the world when it comes to relationships and perhaps why so many friendships and matrimony bonds falter in life, but it is not God's ways.
Jesus told a parable about a father and his two sons (Luke 15:11-32). The oldest son, fed up with working his father's farm, demanded that his father give him the full portion of his inheritance. Talk about out of the ordinary! An estate is usually not received until the person has died. In effect, the son was saying to his father, "Hurry up and die old man so I can get on with my life." So the father gave his oldest son his inheritance, and the young man packed and set off for the horizon. The Bible says the young man went to a distant land and squandered all of his money on loose living.
It is not hard to imagine that once the young man's money was gone, so were his so-called friends. The Bible says he became "impoverished," or in other words, he was dead broke, hungry, and his health was diminishing by the day. One day, as he was feeding and eating with the hogs, the young man came to his senses, and he realized that even his father's workers lived in better conditions than what he was living. He decided that he would return home to apologize for his actions and to ask his father to hire him as an ordinary worker.
When the father saw his son approaching from a long way off, he immediately ran to meet him and when the two met, the father embraced and kissed his son to welcome him home. The young man apologized for what he had done and asked to be hired as a worker, but his father said to his worker, "Quickly bring out the best robe and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet; and bring the fattened calf, kill it, and let us eat and celebrate; for this son of mine was dead and has come to life again; he was lost and has been found" (Luke 15:22-24)
The boy's father chose not to keep a grudge or a root of bitterness and hold his son's transgression against him for the rest of his life. No, the father extended compassion, mercy, and grace to his son. Our heavenly Father does the same for us when we fall into temptation and commit acts of sin against Him. When we approach God's throne with a genuine penitent or sorrowful heart, the Bible says, "He is faithful to forgive" (1 John 1:9), but God not only forgives us, he also chooses to remember our sins no more because of the redeeming work Jesus did on the cross.
While the wounds that others inflict on us can run long and deep, there is no wound, no brokenness, no fellowship that God's love cannot heal and fully restore to its original state or perhaps even better than before. Jesus said all we need is faith the size of a mustard seed. Therefore, let us be encouraged to always extend forgiveness to those who hurt us, let us wipe their slate clean by choosing to forget their offense, and seek to restore our relationship in full. If the other person refuses, then consider the words of the apostle Paul who wrote:
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